What My 4 Year Old Wants You to Know About Yelling

What My 4 Year Old Wants You to Know About Yelling

I’m guilty. I’m sure you are too. The paint ends up on the wall after the 30th, “Don’t do it!” The baby gets hit with a flying toy after you specifically said, “Don’t throw it!” The toddler isn’t listening. The preschooler isn’t listening. The teenager isn’t...
Sandbox Lessons

Sandbox Lessons

With the arrival of Spring came new sand for our backyard play area. My kids have spent what seems like every waking hour out there scooping and shoveling and digging. This afternoon, we invited our friends over to play with us. The group quickly abandoned the idea of...
What My 4 Year Old Wants You to Know About Yelling

Why I’m a Mess & That’s Okay

I was on my way into the grocery store the other day (my life seems to revolve around very little other than shopping for food, making food and cleaning food off of dishes and people.) And I walked past a little vending machine with a small Christian magazine inside....
What My 4 Year Old Wants You to Know About Yelling

Communication Fail: I Say, He Hears, We Both Lose

When I was in the middle of my first miscarriage, my husband went to the store and bought a new kitchen faucet. Ours had been broken for weeks, and he hadn’t mentioned the idea of fixing it once. But for whatever reason… we left our doctor’s appointment and drove...
Kids, Meet Becky

Kids, Meet Becky

Hi. I’m Becky, and before I had kids, I was… Well, I will just be honest. I was kind of awesome. We would have been friends. I was funny. Like – “Man, she’s funny!” funny. Maybe I wasn’t that funny – but at least I had time to laugh. I was very outgoing. There...
The Lie that Almost Destroyed My Marriage

The Lie that Almost Destroyed My Marriage

I married the wrong guy. It was the lie that played over and over in my mind for years. It was the base of every fight. It plagued our disagreements. It promised destruction. But I couldn’t make it go away, and it almost cost us everything. Long before I met my...
What My 4 Year Old Wants You to Know About Yelling

Broccoli Mongolian Beef – Recipe

1- 1/2 lb round steak ¾ C vegetable oil (divided) 1 C soy sauce [edit] We made this with regualr soy sauce, but next time I will definitely use low sodium. It was very salty! 1 C water 1 C brown sugar [edit] I think I could cut this back to 3/4 C as it was veeery...
What My 4 Year Old Wants You to Know About Yelling

I Wave My White Flag: It is Time for a Cease-Fire

That’s it. I’m calling it. It is time to step over the imaginary lines that divide us. It is time to tear down the walls and the alliances and the us-vs-them banners that declare our loyalties. This is my white flag, and I’m calling for an end to all mommy-wars. When...
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