Comments on: I Bought My Daughter a Dress Even Though She Disobeyed

By: SK Bell

SK Bell — Tue, 13 Sep 2016 18:32:02 +0000

Love, love, love it. My son has a lot of food issues too, but I kind of expected that since his daddy does as well. I have found that a lot of people, including some of the people we once felt closest to, “don’t believe in them” and it breaks my heart. We know our kids’ hearts and we know when things outside of their control are hurting their spirits. I hope you’re able to find that perfect balance for your daughter soon. You are a great mama.

By: Becky Thompson

Becky Thompson — Thu, 08 Sep 2016 00:17:19 +0000

In reply to Andrea Collier. Thanks for taking the time to read and comment, Andrea. Blessings on your house as well!

By: Becky Thompson

Becky Thompson — Thu, 08 Sep 2016 00:16:28 +0000

In reply to Tine. I love this comment, Tine. Thank you for sharing your heart with me. Yes. Prayer is what is getting us through. I know someday we will look back at this with a far different perspective than we have right now in the middle of it. That's so encouraging. XO

By: Becky Thompson

Becky Thompson — Thu, 08 Sep 2016 00:15:04 +0000

In reply to L's Mommy. L's Mommy, you're not alone, sister. So glad to encourage you today. Sending love.

By: Becky Thompson

Becky Thompson — Thu, 08 Sep 2016 00:14:16 +0000

In reply to Lisa Wundke. Once upon a time I wanted to move to Australia. We priced houses/apartments and considered leaving our jobs and school to move to Sydney and go to Hillsong Leadership Academy. (I think that's what it was called ten years ago anyway.) Life and all of its plans change quickly, don't they!? So glad you took a minute to say hello, Lisa. You are so loved as well.

By: Lisa Wundke

Lisa Wundke — Wed, 07 Sep 2016 22:51:01 +0000

Dear Becky,

From the time I read your first article I felt the heart of God through your words. I was actually pregnant with our second son and really needed those words, your words really were refreshing. I love reading your posts and find them very encouraging. God is so good so loving and so trustworthy and thank you for reminding us girls, wives, mothers, daughters of that constantly.
Your a good friend! I wish we could hang out but I’m in Australia ?
One day maybe, until then keep hearing Gods heart for people and sharing it. We all love you.
God bless
Lisa xxx

By: L's Mommy

L's Mommy — Wed, 07 Sep 2016 21:01:26 +0000

This made me cry happy tears that I’m not alone. My situation is somewhat different, but my daughter has anxiety and separation issues that show themselves many different ways and at different times. I have heard many opinions from others of what I can do better/different/more to help her or help me do a better job at parenting. I have heard remarks in store lines about what others feel or think about her actions and mine and I have cried in stores because I knew they were judging us. Like you, years ago I would have judged myself like they do and I feel terrible for it. Thank you for your honesty. It is good to know I am not the only one traveling this road.

By: Tine

Tine — Wed, 07 Sep 2016 19:51:26 +0000

Oh, Mama! With tears in my eyes I send hugs to you❣ I can totally relate–our 7 year old has, what I call, sensory issues. Certain things seem to trigger emotional stress and sometimes “meltdowns” or “ginger snaps” (she’s a red-head). They were much worse when she was younger and good news–they have improved with time.
I know that horrible feeling of being out in public and being aware of the judging. Even worse than that is family who judge or “think” they know exactly what we should do to modify her behavior. We have tried everything ranging from punishment to negotiations. By far the best option we have found, hands down, tested time and time again is……Pray, pray, pray….for patience, love, and (the most key element), an understanding that it is NOT in their control!
Hug those babies!!! Give them some alone time if they need it…then hug them again❣

By: Andrea Collier

Andrea Collier — Wed, 07 Sep 2016 19:17:15 +0000

God bless you, Becky! One of my children had severe sensory and processing issues. If I had a dollar for every time people mumbled their thoughts on how to handle MY child, well…
He is still not always able to see the potential outcome during the process. He is 17 now and more polite than my other children and also able to handle outings, as long as I stick to the plan and he brings a book.
Many Blessings.

By: Christy

Christy — Wed, 07 Sep 2016 19:16:34 +0000

Hi, your story sounds like mine…. However, how did you find out it was an allergy to dye? My son sounds very familiar to your daughter, but I’m not sure that’s what it is.